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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:01:13 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Lessons from the Cockpit</title><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/</link><description>Lessons from the Cockpit: Everyday Wisdom from the Flying Life</description><lastBuildDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 13:40:45 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>Out of the Cave</title><category>News</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 13:16:53 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2010/3/17/out-of-the-cave.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:7041887</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Blue%20Sky%20Cave%20%20614.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1268832807189" alt="" /></span></span>I feel as if I've been hibernating for the last few months. As I stumble out to blue skies and bright sun, I know this: It&rsquo;s good to be back. I&rsquo;ve missed posting on the website, but there&rsquo;s an excellent reason for my absence. I&rsquo;ve spent the last three months wrapping up my novel. I&hellip;am&hellip;finished. That is, I&rsquo;m as finished as I can be at this stage. Writing a novel is a lengthy process that keeps churning until the last possible moment before the book goes to print. When it finds the right home&mdash;and editor&mdash;at a publishing house, I&rsquo;ll have more work to do, but I welcome the effort. That&rsquo;s how a book moves from good to great, provided you have something good from the onset. Right now, I&rsquo;m preparing packets to send to agents, depending on their submission guidelines. I&rsquo;ve spent numerous hours researching the appropriate ones to target, however, that is also an ongoing task as it can take a while to connect with the one meant for your book. Like the appropriate editor at a publisher, the right agent will have valuable feedback to elevate the book as well to make it more marketable. If any of you have relationships with reputable agents, I would love to hear from you. But even if you don&rsquo;t, I still want to hear from you. Learning what's happening in your lives, and sharing in your successes, is just as important as me telling you what&rsquo;s going on in mine. I&rsquo;ve said it before, but it bears repeating: life is not about money and accumulating stuff; it&rsquo;s about good relationships and accumulating experiences.</p>
<p>Speaking of relationships, many thanks go to all my friends and family who&rsquo;ve supported me in this process. Also, I could not have done it without my writer friends offering encouragement and lending critical eyes to help improve the novel. If you are an emerging writer who is giving due diligence to the craft, you owe it to yourself to find kindred souls on the same journey so you can help each other succeed. We all have blind spots. The key is to find the right people who will point them out in a nurturing manner.</p>
<p>One writer friend said I should do a post on the lessons I learned while writing the novel, insights I could only discover by immersing myself in the process. Sounded like a great idea to me, so look for that topic in the near future.</p>
<p>But for now, back to our regularly scheduled programming . . . . Summer School - Part 3 coming soon.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-7041887.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Summer School - Part 2</title><category>Balance</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Limitless Living</category><category>Living in the Present</category><category>Uncertainty</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 19:05:30 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/12/14/summer-school-part-2.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:6061445</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 400px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Sunburst%20over%20ocean%20%20311%20-%202009-04-09%20at%2022-39-06.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1260820833017" alt="" /></span></span>Second in the summer school lessons series. For part 1, click <a href="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/11/9/summer-school.html">here</a>.</p>
<p>In July of 1990, I had a bad day. The plan called for heels dug into the hot sands of Athens, Greece accompanied by great friends while I gazed at crystal blue water as far as the eye could see. The reality? I had the water part. I had the friends part. The problem? They were as cranky as I was because crystal blue surrounded us as far as we could see on all sides.</p>
<p>Instead of the port call to Athens, among other popular locales, my buddies and I bobbed in the open ocean, captive on a naval destroyer off the coast of Africa. Civil war had erupted in Liberia and our ship, the fastest in the battle group, diverted in a frantic rush to lend assistance. Goodbye France, goodbye Spain, goodbye Greece.</p>
<p>After two months of continuous steaming in a square mile pattern far enough over the horizon so the only glimpse of the coast entailed the occasional mirage, stir crazy didn&rsquo;t begin to describe us. There <em>were</em> bright spots.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-6061445.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Summer School</title><category>Doubt</category><category>Flying</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Limitless Living</category><category>Passion</category><category>Positive Thinking</category><category>Reaching Your Dreams</category><category>Success</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 14:35:37 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/11/9/summer-school.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:5743949</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 400px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Summer%20School.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1257816503642" alt="" /></span></span>I miss summer already. Perhaps it&rsquo;s a holdback from childhood when the last school bell rang and the doors flung wide to spill kids and teens into a June they finally claimed for themselves. School worked for many people, but I wasn&rsquo;t one of them. For me, real learning began after those school doors slammed shut behind me.</p>
<p>During summers my mind sparked, ignited because I controlled my education, unfettered by what someone else believed I should learn. Transported by books, bicycles, and blue skies&mdash;willing screens I projected a vivid imagination onto&mdash;my mind expanded as I chased whatever drew my interest until September closed in. Since those summer days of self-directed exploration, I&rsquo;ve always considered any learning I&rsquo;ve accomplished on my own as &ldquo;summer school,&rdquo; an educational program driven by someone who had my best interests in mind.</p>
<p>Perhaps you&rsquo;re like me and felt you didn&rsquo;t learn the things you really wanted to when you were in school, whether it was high school where classes were chosen for you or college where you acquiesced to parents or bought into society&rsquo;s urging that the world needed more marketing people. Maybe you feel it&rsquo;s too late to do anything about it now.</p>
<p>I&rsquo;m here to tell you it&rsquo;s never too late, no matter how old you are. You just need to take charge of your own education and enroll yourself into &ldquo;summer school.&rdquo;</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5743949.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Follow the Glow - My Guest Post on Bestselling Author Rick Smith's Website</title><category>Flying</category><category>Intuition</category><category>Letting Go</category><category>Limitless Living</category><category>Reaching Your Dreams</category><category>Success</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 16:18:07 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/10/10/follow-the-glow-my-guest-post-on-bestselling-author-rick-smi.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:5458166</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 400px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Yellow Brick Road 4 x 6.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1255194010741" alt="" /></span></span>I'm pleased to announce my article&nbsp;<em><a href="http://ricksmith.me/2009/10/10/follow-the-glow/" target="_blank">Follow the Glow</a></em>&nbsp;is featured on Rick Smith's website.&nbsp;Rick is the bestselling author of <a href="http://leapbuilder.com/" target="_blank"><em>The Leap: How 3 Simple Changes Can Propel Your Career from Good to Great.</em></a>&nbsp;Rick has made great leaps himself, including founding <a href="http://www.w50.com/" target="_blank">World 50</a>, one of the world&rsquo;s most influential senior executive networking companies that includes members and contributors such as Bono, Francis Ford Coppola and Jon Stewart. What I found fascinating during my read of&nbsp;<em>The Leap</em> was Rick's honesty and accessibility as an author. Given Rick's credentials, he could have touted genius as the foundation for his success. Instead, Rick describes how many people who have accomplished great things, including himself, were not much different from the rest of us. They simply made small changes that made big differences. One of those small changes is simply finding work that fits with who you are as a person. Always great advice, but sometimes hard to know how to execute. Rick's book <em>The Leap</em> can show you how.</p>
<p>So check out Rick's new book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Leap-Simple-Changes-Propel-Career/dp/1591842565/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255192399&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank"><em>The Leap</em></a> and click <a href="http://ricksmith.me/2009/10/10/follow-the-glow/" target="_blank">here</a> to read <em>Follow the Glow </em>on his website<em>.</em></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5458166.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>The School of Life</title><category>Flying</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Inner Kid</category><category>Letting Go</category><category>Limitless Living</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 18:31:58 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/9/20/the-school-of-life.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:5246975</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/School Buses.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1253472198514" alt="" /></span></span>There&rsquo;s no substitute for the school of life. Each of us is enrolled, like it or not. But we should like it. It&rsquo;s the finest education money can&rsquo;t buy. Heck, it&rsquo;s the finest education available even when compared to the ones money <em>can</em> buy.</p>
<p>Everyday we receive lessons. Whether we choose to learn something from them is a different story. I always try to learn something, although I need a remedial course or two on occasion to mine the precious gem of wisdom from the dirt and debris of the situation. But once I discover that gem, I stick it in my pocket as a reminder to make different choices in the future.</p>
<p>There are numerous lessons to share from fumbling through my own school of life, but I thought I&rsquo;d relay one in particular as it gets a bit of airplay around our house from time to time.</p>
<p>Here&rsquo;s what happened:</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5246975.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Life is Rich</title><category>Creativity</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Limitless Living</category><category>Living in the Present</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 23:46:14 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/8/30/life-is-rich.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:5042273</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 400px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Books%20against%20sky.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1251676128620" alt="" /></span></span>We&rsquo;ve all heard the maxim, &ldquo;The best things in life are free.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s true. But what about those great things in life that <em>do </em>cost something? I&rsquo;ve been thinking about, and making a list of, things that don&rsquo;t cost much, relatively speaking, but give rich experiences. The twist, however, is I wanted to identify that which a billionaire couldn&rsquo;t necessarily buy a better experience than me. So here goes:</p>
<p>1) <strong>Great Books</strong> - I can feel the pages now: textured paper brimming with stone-wedged swords, grinning cats, time wrinkles, and precious rings. We dive into black ink, immersed in imagination and hours that flow like minutes, until the real world beckons. Ah, such an irreplaceable experience. True, this could fall into the &ldquo;free&rdquo; category if you utilize the public library, but supply doesn&rsquo;t always meet demand, not to mention how many times I&rsquo;ve tried to reserve a book only to learn the sole copy is 5 years overdue. Our taxes pay for the library anyway, so not exactly free. And yes, the billionaire may be able to buy that first edition of Oliver Twist, signed by Charles Dickens himself, but do you think he sits in a cozy chair by the fire at night to read it? Absolutely not. If he wants to recapture the magic of the story, he&rsquo;d probably eyeball the same umpteenth edition we do. Dive into a book.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5042273.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>The Passion for Planes, Paintings, and Pets</title><category>Flying</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Limitless Living</category><category>Passion</category><category>Reaching Your Dreams</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 19:56:34 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/8/19/the-passion-for-planes-paintings-and-pets.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:4944098</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 400px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Airplane Sky 1.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1250762091038" alt="" /></span></span>Passion. It sparks in radiant arcs when you discover it&mdash;or it discovers you. When you possess it, you couldn&rsquo;t hide its warm glow if you tried. Passion spills beyond the edges of your physical form to illuminate your true path in life. But to recognize that path you must wake up and pry your eyes away from the crowded route society suggests you travel, that road thick with business suit zombies&mdash;the working dead&mdash;who move wherever they&rsquo;re told. To find your true path, you must study your surroundings, must discover where passion&rsquo;s glow throws a vibrant light onto hidden doorways and seldom used short cuts. Trust and follow that beam. It will lead you to the person you were meant to be.</p>
<p>But passion is not only luminescent; it&rsquo;s magnetic as well. Passion draws kindred souls to you, even as it tugs you toward them. And when the individual light of passions mix and swirl in their infinite colors, magic emerges.</p>
<p>Over the past few weeks, I&rsquo;ve watched passion energized gatherings and witnessed how they connect us in the most unlikely places. For you pilots that read this blog, please read to the end to learn how your passions can help others with theirs.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-4944098.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>The Space Between Life's Lessons</title><category>Creativity</category><category>Flying</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Intuition</category><category>Letting Go</category><category>Reaching Your Dreams</category><category>Success</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 01:21:30 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/7/24/the-space-between-lifes-lessons.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:4735765</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Some of you may have noticed a lag between posts recently, which may imply I&rsquo;m not writing as much. Au contraire. Last week I wrote at least six hours a day, sometimes seven and eight. What am I spending so much time writing if not <em>Lessons from the Cockpit</em>? Read on.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 250px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Open%20Door%201.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1248486114019" alt="" /></span></span>Readers sensed something brewing when I posted &ldquo;Make the Leap&rdquo; parts <a href="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/4/15/make-the-leap-part-1.html">1</a> and <a href="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/4/21/make-the-leap-part-2.html">2</a>, and although I knew my end goal and held the destination foremost in mind, I was unsure when I'd make the leap and start the journey toward it. But sometimes the destination moves toward us. Recently, I felt a palpable shift in my life, a swirling energy mass gathering beyond the horizon. The clear skies circling me gave no indication anything differed from my normal routine, yet I knew the swirl approached, could feel it in my being. I kept angling my body in its direction with anticipation. I liken it to a summer storm where we can&rsquo;t see the thunderheads building&mdash;they&rsquo;re too far away or the tree line obscures them from view&mdash;but we know it&rsquo;s coming. A breeze kicks up. The temperature drops five degrees. The leaves on the trees flash their pale green underbellies in rippling waves.</p>
<p>Before you think this energy mass was something ominous, let me say this. Some people don&rsquo;t like storms, but not me. I get excited. Why?</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-4735765.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Into the Great Wide Now</title><category>Flying</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Limitless Living</category><category>Living in the Present</category><category>Quiet Mind</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 18:47:26 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/7/8/into-the-great-wide-now.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:4562493</guid><description><![CDATA[<span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 400px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Cherokee.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1247080286122" alt="" /></span></span>Flaps, one notch. Mixture, rich. Sky, clear. Throttle, full. Brakes, released. The plane clings to the ground for an instant, Newton and one of his pesky laws stunts your movement, but soon, another law trumps inertia and you inch forward, creeping at first, then picking up speed, faster and faster, the landscape a green blur down both sides of the peripheral vision. Feet work the rudder pedals, a slight sway from left to right then back again. The stick vibrates your palm as a narrow, white needle springs to life on the airspeed indicator, its silent warning screaming that 30 more knots are critical before you can even <em>think</em> of lifting off. Meanwhile you&rsquo;ve eaten up half the runway, the trees at the opposite end, the ones that appeared so gentle and kind and docile before, now furious, their faces gnarled in determination as they yank themselves from the ground, shake the red clay from their twisted roots and begin to charge toward you. Against your instinct,]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-4562493.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Wisdom a la Carte</title><category>Doubt</category><category>Flying</category><category>Guest Post</category><category>Guidance</category><category>Letting Go</category><category>Limitless Living</category><category>Uncertainty</category><dc:creator>Christopher Laney</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 11:42:52 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/2009/6/25/wisdom-a-la-carte.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">304290:3167472:4438087</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 350px;" src="http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/storage/Wisdom a la Carte.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1245984990204" alt="" /></span></span>I'm pleased to announce my post "Don't Look Back<em>"&nbsp;</em>is featured on Wisdom a la Carte's <a href="http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/" target="_blank">blog</a> and <a href="http://www.wisdomalacarte.com/ezine/ezine090624.html" target="_blank">newsletter</a>. Wisdom a la Carte is a wonderful resource for thought provoking articles by various writers. In the newsletter, "Don't Look Back," is accompanied by Tama J. Kieves' article "A Vow of Love For Yourself." Kieves is the best-selling author of <em>THIS TIME I DANCE! Creating the Work You Love/How One Harvard Lawyer Left It All to Have It All!</em></p>
<p>If you missed "Don't Look Back" on <em>Lessons from the Cockpit</em>,&nbsp;click <a href="http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/dont-look-back/2009/06/" target="_blank">here</a> for the article on Wisdom a la Carte's website, or <a href="http://www.wisdomalacarte.com/ezine/ezine090624.html" target="_blank">here</a> for the newsletter. Enjoy.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.lessonsfromthecockpit.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-4438087.xml</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>